- Published on: Aug 26, 2025
- Editor: Yuri
- Written from: Seoul, South Korea 🇰🇷 

If you clicked on this article, you might be carrying a weight that feels unresolved — a problem without an answer, or a sense of being stuck in life.

And I know.. I know that feeling well.

I’ve often found myself moving between extremes: one day, life felt perfect and fulfilling, and the next, I was haunted by endless nightmares or constant comparisons to seemingly perfect lives on social media.

I questioned: What am I really doing right? Where am I headed?

I looked back at paths I didn’t take, and felt exhausted chasing perfection on the path I was on. Relationships were rocky too — especially in my early 20s. No matter how hard I tried, some people only saw my flaws. Sometimes the people I loved most didn’t love me back. And on those days, I couldn’t help but dislike myself too.

This isn’t just another blog about Korean fortune telling or saju. This is a note from someone who’s been there, hoping my story gives you comfort :) 

1. Let Go of Perfection — Take Just One Small Step

We often forget the power of a single step.

When the road feels long and heavy, we lose the ability to comfort ourselves. Instead of obsessing over the perfect end goal, focus on the process. Find joy in small moments.

Those little steps add up into experiences, lessons, and memories — regardless of the outcome. If life feels too heavy now, don’t try to leap all at once. Just take one small step forward.

That’s enough.

2. Fill Yourself with Energy Instead of Chasing It Outside

When we feel empty, we try to fill the gap with people, objects, food, or achievements.

But if we keep chasing, we reinforce the belief that we’re “incomplete.”

The real shift happens when we recognize abundance inside us. When love and energy overflow within, we stop clinging to what’s outside. The answers are already within.

If you don’t know where to start, one tool I personally found helpful was a Korean saju reading online. It interprets the Four Pillars of Destiny (year, month, day, and hour of birth) and shows your core nature, luck cycles, and life flow. Sajume’s reports helped me understand patterns I couldn’t see myself — and that gave me a new way to love who I already was.

3. Step Back and Explore More of the World

When we obsess over one thing, it becomes attachment.

That’s when pain grows.
If you can, step back.

Explore what others are enjoying, or learn something outside your field. For me, it was picking up novels after years of only reading self-development books(seriously). Even tiny shifts, like walking a new path, starting a small hobby (for me, it was making hand-made gemstone bracelets and giving them to my friends as gifts), or reading a different genre, can show you that the world has countless colors.

The world is much wider than the problem you’re facing right now.
Sometimes, distance itself is the solution.

Final Thoughts

I don’t know what your exact struggle is — career, love, or health — but I hope it’s a meaningful struggle for you. A pain that will remind you of what truly matters. And you will step out of it.

If you want a deeper perspective on yourself, your timing, and your natural tendencies, explore Sajume’s saju reading online. Start with the free report, and when you’re ready, dive deeper with the premium version for personalized career, love, and life guidance.

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